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		<title>[Heyyyy] Video: Stewart takes on Prop 8 appeal haters, CNN&#8217;s love for gay bars</title>
		<link>http://www.bewilderedsociety.com/blog/2010/08/video-stewart-takes-on-prop-8-appeal-haters-cnns-love-for-gay-bars/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Aug 2010 17:38:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dave Studinski</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Where&#8217;s the best place to find a gay marriage critic? A gay bar.

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Where&#8217;s the best place to find a gay marriage critic? A gay bar.</p>
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		<title>[(in)complete coverage] Reuters Headline: Tired Gay succumbs to Dix in 200 meters</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jul 2010 15:45:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dave Studinski</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Astute readers will notice the slang buried in the nutgraf.

Reuters &#124; Tired Gay succumbs to Dix in 200 meters
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Astute readers will notice the slang buried in the nutgraf.</p>
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<p><a href="http://www.reuters.com/article/idUSTRE6622I420100703">Reuters | </a><a href="http://www.reuters.com/article/idUSTRE6622I420100703">Tired Gay succumbs to Dix in 200 meters</a></p>
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		<title>[STFU] Maddow&#8217;s struggle in debunking a ‘cure’ for homosexuality</title>
		<link>http://www.bewilderedsociety.com/blog/2009/12/maddows-struggle-in-debunking-a-%e2%80%98cure%e2%80%99-for-homosexuality/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Dec 2009 07:42:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dave Studinski</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The openly gay (and beloved) Rachel Maddow took on the book author whose content is responsible for feeding Uganda&#8217;s proposed anti-gay bill. &#8220;Coming Out Straight&#8221; author Richard Cohen is a self-proclaimed therapist claiming love and an understanding of male bonding he never had both led him to turn straight. The book is a seeming brainwash [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The openly gay (and beloved) Rachel Maddow took on the book author whose content is responsible for feeding Uganda&#8217;s proposed <a href="http://www.google.com/hostednews/ap/article/ALeqM5gNOsUTPIL6zoTWAGRTzPqmx3__IgD9CFBHJ00" target="_blank">anti-gay bill.</a> &#8220;Coming Out Straight&#8221; author Richard Cohen is a self-proclaimed therapist claiming love and an understanding of male bonding he never had both led him to turn straight. The book is a seeming brainwash of OMIGOD-GAYS-HAVE-AIDS-AND-WILL-KILL-US-ALL-style fear-mongering and fact twisting with the end-goal of claiming there&#8217;s straight light at the end of the homosexual rainbow.</p>
<p>Watch the full interview (just shy of 20 minutes:</p>
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<p>While we&#8217;d like to claim her the winner of this debate, moments like below show Maddow clearly losing her temper while &#8220;Mr. Reformed&#8221; remains in an irritatingly stoic position. She&#8217;s attempting to make a point</p>
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<p>Perhaps the flaw in the conversation, and its victor, is the angle in which the story was approached. It was a two-issue debate focusing both on homosexuality as a myth and supporting evidence for that myth being used to kill gays. While related, the two are each large enough battles to devote entire shows to, let alone a 20-minute combined segment.</p>
<p>Maddow&#8217;s weakness is this merging of arguments. She (should have) wanted to talk about Uganda, but she ended up confronting the bullshit claims out of clear personal resent. And rightfully so, but that&#8217;s what makes this segment fail. Watch as it&#8217;s spun: first as a promotion for his organization, then second as a disclaimer against the use of his material for the persecution of gays. Her argument is lost in a sea of, &#8220;We&#8217;ll I didn&#8217;t mean to &#8230;&#8221;</p>
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<p>We&#8217;re left in awe of what a complete fuckup this guy is, not in awe of Maddow&#8217;s take-down of said fuckup. While negative, he still retains the focus.</p>
<p>As mythical as the detached observer principle of journalism became this decade, this is one example of why it needs to exist. Maddow&#8217;s personal attachment to the story, as that of an openly gay woman, causes her more harm then good. Talking points become personal and it interferes with the ability to take charge of the debate.</p>
<p>While some find him repulsive in his Murrow-esque behavior, Maddow&#8217;s time-slot neighbor, Keith Olbermann, would have handled this debate better. Anyone doubting his thoughts on the issue need only turn to his <a href="http://www.bewilderedsociety.com/blog/2008/11/keith-olbermann-speaks-out-on-proposition-8/" target="_blank">Prop 8 special commentary</a> around this time last year. He made the argument personal to his viewers without having the direct personal interest himself. That&#8217;s something Maddow, and frankly much of her audience, can&#8217;t claim.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not that Maddow failed. She&#8217;s didn&#8217;t. That&#8217;s impossible to do when you&#8217;re up against a man practicing psycho-babble. The shame is that she couldn&#8217;t leverage the insanity of his argument against gays to make him admit that &#8211; intended or not -  it&#8217;s ultimately leading to their genocide.</p>
<br/>Originally Posted to <a href="http://www.bewilderedsociety.com/blog/2009/12/maddows-struggle-in-debunking-a-%e2%80%98cure%e2%80%99-for-homosexuality/">BewilderedSociety.com</a>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>[Heyyyy] Our locker room is only, like, half geyh, brah</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Aug 2009 19:46:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dave Studinski</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[How gay is the college football locker room? An ESPN The Magazine survey asked 85 players from around the country with the question &#8220;Do you have any gay teammates?&#8221;
Almost half of those surveyed (49.4%, to be exact) said yes, they believe they have at least one gay teammate. In the Pac-10, 70% of those surveyed [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How gay is the college football locker room? An <a href="http://www.businesswire.com/portal/site/google/?ndmViewId=news_view&amp;newsId=20090814005548&amp;newsLang=en">ESPN The Magazine survey</a> asked 85 players from around the country with the question &#8220;Do you have any gay teammates?&#8221;</p>
<blockquote><p>Almost half of those surveyed (49.4%, to be exact) said yes, they believe they have at least one gay teammate. In the Pac-10, 70% of those surveyed said yes.</p></blockquote>
<p>And this is football. Imagine volleyball.</p>
<p>[via <a href="http://www.queerty.com/half-of-college-football-players-claim-they-know-a-lockerroom-gay-20090817/" target="_blank">Queerty</a>]</p>
<br/>Originally Posted to <a href="http://www.bewilderedsociety.com/blog/2009/08/our-locker-room-is-only-like-half-geyh-brah/">BewilderedSociety.com</a>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>[Heyyyy] Are your tweets outing you?</title>
		<link>http://www.bewilderedsociety.com/blog/2009/08/are-your-tweets-outing-you/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Aug 2009 16:27:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>KQ</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Unfortunately, Stockholm Pride is over for 2009. The good news is, its marketing team took a tip from the 21st Century Rule Book with a Twitter feature on the Web site: How hetero?
The tool is not exactly scientific, but it searches your tweets for cliché words used by and about homosexuals (albeit arguably &#8220;cliché&#8221;), then it [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Unfortunately, <a href="http://www.stockholmpride.org/en/2009/">Stockholm Pride</a> is over for 2009. The good news is, its marketing team took a tip from the 21st Century Rule Book with a Twitter feature on the Web site: <a href="http://www.stockholmpride.org/howhetero/">How hetero?</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.stockholmpride.org/howhetero/"></a>The tool is not exactly scientific, but it searches your tweets for cliché words used by and about homosexuals (albeit arguably &#8220;cliché&#8221;), then it rates your heterosexuality as a percentage. But does it include cheeky commentary about your results and a list of words that earned you the label? Check!</p>
<p>It turns out, <a href="http://twitter.com/bewilderedsoc">@bewilderedsoc</a> is 73% hetero! (Well, as a boy, that is &#8212; as a girl, it&#8217;s only 45% hetero, whew!) According to some <a href="http://www.afterellen.com/blog/sarahwarn/twitter-watch-how-hetero-are-you">in-depth research</a> at AfterEllen.com, that makes us about 10% less hetero than Lindsay Lohan and 61% more hetero than FoxNews. Click the image to read in full detail.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.bewilderedsociety.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/73hetero1.jpg" rel="shadowbox[post-2972];player=img;"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-2978" title="73hetero1" src="http://www.bewilderedsociety.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/73hetero1-300x201.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="201" /></a></p>
<p>So, what&#8217;s the verdict? Are you more or less hetero than @bewilderedsoc?</p>
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